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Still Grieving, Still Here: When grief goes unseen

Still Grieving, Still Here: When grief goes unseen

There’s a kind of grief that doesn’t get named. Grief that isn’t validated. Grief that gets quiet- not because it went away, but because the world stopped listening. This is part of disenfranchised grief. The kind that lingers after everyone else has moved on. The...

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Letter to My Child’s School

Letter to My Child’s School

Dear [Teacher], I want to start by saying that we are very happy with [the preschool] and that [our child] loves going to school. We appreciate the care you and the other teachers are providing to our baby. The way that you are helping her grow, learn, and adapt is...

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What Seinfeld and Therapy Have in Common

What Seinfeld and Therapy Have in Common

A Session About Nothing Remember that Seinfeld episode “The Chinese Restaurant”? I realize I’m dating myself here, so if you were born in the 21st century, gather ‘round: Seinfeld was a sitcom in the 90s that was dubbed “The Show About Nothing” because its...

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Fear and Self-Loathing in the U.S.

Fear and Self-Loathing in the U.S.

“He won.” Sleepy and disoriented from staying up way too late the night before, I looked bleary-eyed at my daughter, who was waking me up to say goodbye before she left for school. I didn’t quite hear her, only noticed the sadness on her face as she clenched her mouth...

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The Power of Nothing

The Power of Nothing

I’m tired, y’all.  I’ve just come out of a solid 3 1/2 months where I couldn’t shake the persistent fatigue and listlessness that plagued my mood and motivation on a daily basis. I assumed it was lack of sleep, although I’ve pretty much always been a...

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Grief: It’s Complicated

Grief: It’s Complicated

Some of you may have seen my Instagram post about grief last week. I wrote about the different ways grief can show up, how it’s personal and profound and has no time limit. I shared a bit of my own personal experience with loss. But grief is so much bigger than 2200...

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